Yeah, I have a cha of about 100 most of the time, unless you get your cha way up there, it doesn't seem to change much, I still get resists part of the time even when I got it up to 170. It is just based on lvl mainly I believe, but having decent cha does help. Having 110 or 120 is very nice, and should be good enough. Once you get to 40, head over to kelethin and buy the sionche's dreams, I'm not sure on spelling, but IMO it worked a lot better than the AE mez, that got constantly resisted for me, and it is targettable, which is fun, but I always charm a mob, and use it as a pet in group if we get adds, then you need to just survive the beating he gives you once charm breaks and the MT can get it off of you. But that is just what I always do, just seems to work better than to constantly have mez on a mob, unless there are a 3 pull and MT has one you charm another, then mez the last one, that would work nicely, but in a good group, you shouldn't have to worry about that. Etc. it all depends, but yeah, just wait a couple lvls, and don';t try to lay a mez or char or anything higher con than you until later on, even then, only if the mob has lower resists to stuff like that. I have noticed our chants(I'm 48) and slows seem to stick on even yellow and red gorangas in ME to me. so I dunno, just practice and try to figure out what works for you near a zone line on different mobs, that is the best advice I can give. GL to you.